Single mum dating
Through my circle of friends and single moms I meet through this blog, I often hear cries of horror about the thought of single mom dating. What man in his right mind would date someone with so much baggage? People are attracted to these single-mom qualities in a real, meaningful way. Now, I have reached many milestones in my career, relationships, and inner life. My single-mom body is a wreck and I haven’t been on a date in 15 years! Confidence, a full heart, and life experience all equals being a richer, fuller person. My longest friendships were still forming, and I was still figuring out what was most important to me. Women with kids have a whole lot of responsibilities. Time is precious, and efficient moms know that the best way to spend time with a man is truly enjoying a really, really great one.But now you’re a mummy and come as a package deal - an obligatory multipack – which means the man you’re looking for needs to not only be your soul mate but also impress your kids (so you’re not looking for too much, then! The simple truth is – the whole dating thing is not the same as it was pre-children. Once you were skilled in swapping numbers in nightclubs or meeting new men in the gym.Now your skill set is completing the housework one handed and the only man you’re likely to meet is the postman.
So, you’re ready to take the plunge and jump back into the uncertain waters of the dating pool. This kindness bleeds into your other relationships. Being a single mom means that you have been through at least three life-altering experiences. Forgive the friends and in-laws who you felt deserted you.Especially the people you want to attract, aka awesome men.
By Ne Teah Hatchett There seem to be several perks when it comes to dating a woman with kid(s).In my opinion, being a single mother has absolutely nothing to do with one’s marital status.